What are you seeing?

Biting

A child bites another child or an adult. It often happens in close, busy moments or when the child is upset.

What the child may be seeking

The child may need strong input through the jaw and mouth (proprioception). Biting may be a fast way to say stop or mine before words are ready, or a sign of teething, tiredness or hunger (interoception). It might also come from crowded spaces that feel like too much.

Needs it may meet

Heavy work and strong force (proprioceptive input)
Power and being capable (competence)
Seeking sensation (sensory seeking)
Steadying the body and feelings (self-regulation)

First steps

Move in calmly and care for the child who was bitten first.
Stay close to the child who bit and name the feeling you wonder about.
Notice when and where it happens, and write it down.
Offer crunchy snack at snack time and safe things to chew, such as a chewy tube.

Keeping everyone safe

Stay close in busy moments and give children room so mouths and bodies stay safe for everyone.

What a child might need from us

A calm adult to borrow from (co-regulation)
Words for big feelings (emotion coaching)
Rest, food, water or a body break (basic needs)

Senses and body systems

Body pressure and heavy work (proprioception)
Noticing body signals (interoception)
Calming and alerting (self-regulation)
Touch (tactile)

Development

Biting is common in children under three, often when feelings are big and words are still coming (expressive language). Teething can still play a part at two, since the back molars usually come in around this age (tooth eruption). Biting usually fades as children gain words and ways to solve problems with others, so it is less common in threes and fours (social problem solving). Biting is common at two, and we still keep everyone safe and show another way. Biting several times a week is more of a concern than an occasional bite, and if biting continues past the threes, grows, comes with lost skills, or worries the family, the team talks with the family about what they see at home and with the director about whether a closer look at development may help.

Ideas that feed these needs

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Sources

TREE Studio supports educator reflection and planning. It does not diagnose. When a behavior keeps happening or worries a family, talk with the family and with a professional who knows the child. Connects to NAEYC Program Standards 1 and 4, DAP guidelines 1 and 4, Professional Standards 1 and 4. What the numbers mean